• Little Extras Visitors I will take this opportunity to tell you that the time for herds of relatives and friends to come visiting your new bundle of joy is not in the first two days. Yes, they love you, and mean well, but visitors are exhausting. Plus, I promise that taking lots of selfies and being on display will not sound fun to you. You really need quiet, privacy and time to get through the first couple of days. Having lots of visitors at the hospital is not helpful to